Constraint of the Week: The Silent Meal

The Silent Meal, Constraint #59

Invite someone to dinner. No phone, no music, no screen. Just the two of you, the food, and silence. See what happens.

Reference artist(s): John Cage.

The protocol

  1. Invite someone… a friend, a partner, a parent. Explain the constraint beforehand or not, your choice.
  2. Prepare a real meal. No delivery, no ready-made dishes. The care put into the meal is part of the constraint.
  3. At the table, place all phones outside the room or face down. No music, no background sound.
  4. Eat. Talk if you want, or not. Silence is not mandatory… the absence of screens is.
  5. After the meal, each person writes one sentence about how the dinner was different. Submit both sentences on the site.

Variants

  • Do it alone. A carefully prepared meal, eaten in total silence.
  • Do it with ten people. Collective silence at the table is a different phenomenon.

Post your trace on ouviepo.fr with the hashtag #ouviepo_TheSilentMeal

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